Lost Artist

Photographer Daniel Williams - Retro Camera Review - Episode 12

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I was introduced to Daniel Williams through a mutual friend and only hung out with him a handfull of times.  He was a mere 21 years of age when we met.  He was skinny, skinny and had an 80's punk-rock air about him.  His hair was blondish, bordering on strawberry blond and was completely shaved except for a longish patch in the front.  His pants were tight and black and he wore a grayish, creamy t-shirt that was 4x too large for his lanky frame.  His skin was equally as fair as his hair, but it had reddish blemishes here and there.  He also carried an oversize brown clutch purse.

I will admit, his appearance and that purse caused me to pause at first.  Now, I know our mutual friend and he were lovers, but a man carrying a clutch on a bright sunny day was another level for me.  Clearly, he was living his life on his terms.  I honestly admired that and quickly embraced the uniqueness of his personal style.  Especially when he spoke.  His voice was so deep, effeminate and southern all at the same time.  It was just as unique as his style.  Daniel was the genuine article inside and out.

After strolling down Magazine Street in New Orleans, the three of us sat at a small cafe table just outside the old Rue de la Course. As I inquired more about his studies, Daniel seemed to relax and enjoy discussing his work and his career's trajectory.  Daniel would eventually begin digging into his purse.  To my surprise, out came his diabetic medication and syringe.  While sitting by the cafe, he injected his insulin in his stomach very discretely and quickly.

Daniel then needed a refill, so he entered the cafe.  This gave my friend and I an opportunity to gossip about the situation.  He told me he was proceeding cautiously.  Apparently, Daniel was finishing his photography studies at LSU in Baton Rouge and he was looking to move to NYC when he graduated.  Considering he would be graduating in a year or so, my friend didn't want to get super involved if this was just turning out to be a fling before he left town.  Plus, Daniel drove a motorcycle, which can give a non-living-on-the-edge person a bit of concern.  We both agreed that life throws you come interesting curves and he should just go with the flow.

Over the next two years, our friend would end up riding on the back of Daniel's motorcycle and get closer and closer as the days progressed.  Ultimately, Daniel was accepted to Parsons in NYC and our friend helped him pack up the few possessions he had.  They continued to talk daily and he even helped Daniel with airfare to come home and see us all one Thanksgiving.

Daniel and I continued to stay in touch in this digital world.  We would chat on Facebook and "like" one another's posts on Tumblr and Vine.  I was thrilled to see him featured on this video discussing his work on YouTube.  You can see more of his work here: http://thisket.com/

By far, Daniel's posts were the most outrageous and humorous of them all.  My friends and I would laugh and laugh at the outlandish things he could come up with.  Thinking about him and his career, I was simply in awe.  Would he move back to New Orleans?  Would he stay in New York?  Would he and our friend continue to date?  What would happen to Daniel?

Then, on Sunday, our friend posted that Daniel had ended his life on Tuesday, July 23rd.  Daniel had been fighting unseen demons.  His depression had simply consumed him.  He had no more energy to fight on.

I don't believe I will ever get over the shock of this news.  I have never really known anyone to take their own life.  I didn't even really know Daniel that well.  If I feel this angry, what are his friends, family and his lover feeling?

Daniel made the choice he needed to make that day, but I wish he knew it was the wrong decision.  There are people left behind who needed him and the world has lost a true artist.  I feel robbed of his talent.  I wish he was here to carry on the work that needed to be done professionally and personally.  He left too soon.

We love you Daniel.

Is anything ever really complete?

Upon forwarding my book information out to my friends and colleagues, I found myself revisiting the actual text and making quite a few edits.  I strongly agree with the writing concept that as much as you love writing something, it might not work in the end and you have to edit yourself.  You have to say, as much as I think that is funny and well composed, it does not work for the reader or the audience and needs to be altered.

The impetus for these changes was that someone who commented was not someone I had originally pictured in my audience.  Once HE was there (I focused my book primarily on women), I realized my introduction could be off-putting and too narrow.  It wasn't all encompassing.  It wasn't permitting the reader to get comfortable.  Rather, it seemed to make the reader say to themselves, "I am going to be fighting against the grain of this book and I am only three sentences in and already annoyed."

A slash here and a slash there, I think the book's introduction is more coherent and soft.  The only issue now are the printed books from my previous prints.  I have decided those will be galleys and there were changes made post-production :)  I am working it out.

CC

From the Proposal to Ever After: A Louisiana Woman's Guide to Marriage and Community Property Laws [Kindle Edition]

"Ya' gotta look to your inner network"

For someone who wrote this book under an alias, getting the news out to friends and loved ones has been challenging.  One conversation at a time has been great, and initially, it felt great!  But as the days have turned to weeks and months, the conversations have turned to, "I feel like I don't even know you!  You wrote a book and didn't tell anyone?!"

So, I finally took the plunge and outed myself to my friends via Facebook.  I feel a little exposed, but very empowered.  It is always great to have such supportive and generous friends who take the time to even read the event notice.  If any of you have clicked over to this blog, "Hi!"  I hope you are having a great day and I can't wait to see you soon :)

CC


Hello!

XXX here. Very random event notice from me, but this seems to be the best way to message everyone. I have a couple of big announcements, so this may be the first of two event/messages...

I wrote a book this year entitled "From the Proposal to Ever After: A Louisiana Woman's Guide to Marriage and Community Property Laws" and I published it online under the alias Camille Carter. The concept of this work was to provide women in Louisiana the opportunity to read a quick text on marriage law and feel like they "got" it. It is essentially a conversation about pre-nups, post-nups, marriage laws, community property laws, and more.

When I completed the book I forwarded it to Pelican Publishing, but they passed. Thus, I have been moving forward as a self-publisher. It has been an interesting venture and I have been blogging about the process as well. Over 2000 hits on my site so far! You can visit it here: http://fromtheproposaltoeverafter.blogspot.com/

Now, I know the name of the book is a little long and maybe the cover page could use some work, but if you would take take a minute to visit the Amazon page, I would really appreciate it. Heck, if I can send you a free copy, just let me know! I would definitely appreciate your feedback or perhaps your recommendation to a friend.

If you are interested in learning more, please feel free to contact me any time. My cell number is below. You are also welcome to email me here.

Sincerely,
Camille Carter ;)
318-268-7086

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